One other query Jill answered from followers within the Sept. 23 video: How did you have got the braveness to make the modifications you probably did?”Remedy has been actually useful,” Jill mentioned. “But additionally like we have not modified who we’re as folks. As Christians, we need to have the Bible be our customary.”
Jill went on to say that whereas it is useful to nonetheless hearken to recommendation and to entertain different folks’s opinions, it is vital to not be led by worry.
“You must develop as an individual in that, too, and never simply be a folks pleaser,” she mentioned. “But additionally be taught to steadiness and present deference to folks, too. So I believe it is about steadiness however positively about development, too.
“We simply really feel like we’ve the liberty now to make extra choices that we might not have in any other case earlier than,” Derick added. “However we’re in a unique place now the place we will truly make these choices.”
We expect it is admirable that Jill and Derick have taken management of their lives by making the most effective choices for themselves and their household — regardless of the highly-controlled by which the Duggar siblings have been raised. Kudos to them for rising over time and for altering their opinions after looking for out extra info and totally different views.