Anne Darling-Cyphert was married to her husband, David Lee Cyphert, for greater than three many years. This previous week, she misplaced him to issues of COVID-19.
COLUMBUS, Ohio — Anne Darling-Cyphert says her late husband put the “light” within the phrase gentleman.
She describes David Lee Cyphert, her husband of greater than 32 years, as type and giving.
And now, whereas mourning, she is sharing a message to assist save others from the identical destiny as her husband.
“Don’t let your loved ones undergo what my household went by and goes by,” she stated. “For goodness’ sake, give these well being care staff a break.”
Final month, Dave Cyphert contracted COVID-19.
“You need to perceive,” his widow informed 10TV. “Dave was not reckless in his habits. We really imagine that Dave caught COVID in a state of affairs that required his rapid consideration to assist another person. And that was the type of individual Dave was. All the time serving to folks.”
The late Cyphert hung out isolating in a bed room, being monitored through video, to guard the remainder of his household.
Early Thanksgiving morning, his spouse stated she observed his respiration was labored. He ended up within the hospital, the place he spent a number of weeks.
“A situation that’s quite common with COVID set in to his lungs, and his lungs turned like concrete, and the fantastic, fantastic well being care staff have been so type and mild with my household, and their very own teary eyes informed us it was hopeless,” Darling-Cyphert stated.
Finally, Cyphert was moved right into a non-COVID ICU unit, the place his spouse may spend time with him in his last moments.
“I held Dave’s hand, and I stated, ‘My love, God introduced you as a present to me for 3 and a half many years, and if it’s God’s will, I shall be OK and I’ll meet you sometime on the opposite aspect,’” she informed him. “‘I’m pleased with you. I’m pleased with the husband, the daddy, the brother, the brother-in-law, the son-in-law, the son. I’m proud for every part you stood for.’”
Cyphert died on Thursday, abandoning his spouse, three youngsters, two grandchildren and a 3rd on the best way.
Will probably be the couple’s first grandson. And he shall be named Tyler David Do, taking his grandfather’s identify as his center identify.
“It’s laborious realizing that Tyler gained’t essentially be within the arms of Dave, however Tyler can have his personal guardian angel, and that’s his grandpa Dave,” Darling-Cyphert stated.
Darling-Cyphert, a former site visitors reporter at 10TV, stated she desires to share her story now to maybe save somebody’s life, particularly as Christmas week looms, when many might select to disregard the recommendation in opposition to spending time with prolonged relations.
“You must have seen what these well being care staff have been doing to attempt to save my husband’s life. And I’ll always remember once we came upon it was going to be hopeless,” she stated. “And I stepped outdoors of his cubicle to compose myself. And it was in the course of the center of a shift change. And I walked again into his room within the ICU, and there was a nurse that had already clocked out sitting there, crying. If you wish to select to take the danger, you’re placing healthcare staff in jeopardy, they usually’re exhausted. They’re exhausted.”