Owen Valley Excessive Faculty baseball coach and particular training trainer Ryan Wilcoxen suffered a mind bleed February 19 and by no means recovered.
SPENCER, Ind. — Just some hours after Ryan Wilcoxen was taken to surgical procedure to get better his organs for donation, his spouse, Ashley, wished to share his legacy.
The 31-year-old Owen Valley Excessive Faculty baseball coach and particular training trainer suffered a mind bleed February 19 and by no means recovered.
“All I need to do proper now could be speak about Ryan,” Ashley mentioned Friday afternoon on the Owen Valley baseball diamond. “I need to inform anyone and all people about him, and about how blessed I used to be to have him, and the way grateful I’m, and what an exquisite individual he’s.”
With Ryan’s finest buddy, Garrett Sarchet, sitting on the bleachers subsequent to her for assist, Ashley discovered consolation in understanding matches have been already made for her husband’s coronary heart, lungs, liver, and kidneys.
“This has been the worst week of my life,” Ashley mentioned. “However someplace on the market on this nation an individual obtained a cellphone name that mentioned that ‘we have discovered a match in your coronary heart,’ that they’ve actually been ready for to avoid wasting their life. And selfishly, I hate so badly what needed to occur for that, however I can not change it. So, understanding that there are folks on the market getting these cellphone calls and going to their hospitals to prep for surgical procedure; they’re lastly getting the reward that they prayed for. I’m grateful for that.”
Ryan suffered a mind bleed whereas at house per week in the past, possible brought on by an arteriovenous malformation (AVM). The swelling shortly minimize off oxygen to his mind and triggered irreversible harm.
“Ryan may have been given a trach, feeding tube and spent the remainder of his life on a ventilator. However that is not Ryan. That is Ryan,” mentioned Ashley pointing towards the baseball diamond behind her.
Ryan got here to Owen Valley within the fall of 2019 after teaching at a number of different excessive faculties. However coronavirus canceled final season. He was trying ahead to lastly teaching his first sport at his new faculty this spring.
Ashley and Ryan have two daughters, Grace and Delaney.
“I nonetheless do not know the way you inform a six-year-old and four-year-old that their daddy’s not coming house,” mentioned Ashley, crying. “I hold praying to God that when that point comes for me to speak to my women that he simply offers me the phrases, as a result of I do not know what they’re.”
The lights are on on the Owen Valley baseball discipline and at diamonds across the state Friday night time in reminiscence of Ryan Wilcoxen. He coached and taught beforehand at Edinburgh, Eminence, Jap Greene, and Brown County Excessive Colleges.
He turned a particular training trainer at Owen Valley, serving to college students with emotional disabilities.
“So youngsters that battle simply day after day and he was a rock for these youngsters,” mentioned Owen Valley Excessive Faculty Principal Robert Boltinghouse. “Quite a lot of instances the place they could not make traction or beneficial properties in different areas within the constructing, they have been capable of come to him and he was capable of assist them by these.”
Ashley is an assistant principal on the faculty. Her sister is the organizer of a Go Fund Me account to assist the household with medical bills.
The Indiana Donor Community issued this assertion:
“By the reward of organ donation, Coach Wilcoxen and his household are offering hope and therapeutic to others, and we’re grateful for his or her unbelievable generosity. Donors and their households are heroes. One donor can save as much as eight lives by organ donation and heal as much as 75 folks by tissue donation. Proper now, greater than 100,000 persons are ready for a lifesaving organ transplant nationwide, and over 1,000 of these sufferers are in Indiana. We provide our honest condolences to Coach Wilcoxen’s household, mates, and neighborhood.”